Many times people want to know why they should be the one to forgive? Regardless if you feel you’ve been victimized in a situation, the purpose of forgiveness is to free yourself from carrying around the hurt and pain you’ve endured, and taking back your power!
Through the act of forgiveness you take back the power you’ve been giving away to the other person by holding onto, and harboring the anger, resentment, judgement and fear!
Forgiveness is not saying that you are condoning the person for their acts and/or their behavior! Nor does it mean you have to continue a relationship with the them! It is simply saying that you are no longer choosing to give YOUR power away to them, and are releasing this burden to God and the Angels for transmutation and healing! If forgiveness seems impossible for you at this moment in time, then at least be willing to forgive the spirit Being that resides within them.
It’s okay to be pissed-off! Outraged! Angry! It’s just at some point you need to heal and become whole and complete again, and on all levels; emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, sexually and financially to name just a few. The only way to do that is by releasing this situation to your Higher-Self, God and the Angels in order for the healing to begin for everyone involved. We may even sometimes need to forgive ourselves along the way in the healing process.
As difficult as this may be to perceive, you are the one who is already victorious, as forgiveness is ultimately, allowing and receiving unconditional love and compassion for yourself, by trusting in faith, and believing in the higher-power to take over and right the wrongs, so that only good will come out of this experience.
Here are a few suggestions that you can do to initiate the healing process:
- Placing your hands over your Heart Chakra which is located in the center of your chest and affirming: I am willing to be open and receptive to healing this situation and/or life experience through the act of forgiveness for the good of all involved.
- You can also visualize green and/or pink light streaming through this area filling you with healing energy (emerald green) and love (pink) to begin the healing process.
- Another way to begin to release this is to write a letter to God and the Angels stating all of your worries, fears, anger, resentment, etc. about this experience and then burning it in a outside fire container when you are done to release the energy for the Angels to carry to God for transmutation and healing.
- You can call on Archangel Michael for protection, courage, and guidance. Archangel Raphael for healing and Archangel Chamuel for love and compassion for all involved.
Forgiveness is one of the ultimate acts of unconditional love, and is also one of the highest vibrational energies of Being! If you can do this, you have mastered the art of allowing … Let Go and Let God!
Dr. Stacey A. Maxwell